(1) CREATE SPACE :-
To have mind-blowing sex you need to create the time and space for it.
I don’t care how busy you are. Turn off the cell phones. Get the TV and laptops out of your bedroom. Your bed is a sacred space reserved for sleeping and orgasms.
(2) SLOW DOWN AND CONNECT:-
Drink in the deliciousness that is your partner with your eyes. Smell each other. Wake up thousands of nerve endings all over their body with your slow languishing hands.
Put your foreheads together and sync your breathwith theirs for a while. Kiss gently, firmly, passionately, and sweetly.
Get out of your heads and into your bodies.
(3) BREATHE :-
Connect yourself with your breath.
Breathing deeply during foreplay, during sex, and throughout your orgasms will relax your body, prolong the experience, build anticipation, and make you both come harder than you ever thought possible.
Seriously. I know it sounds simple and that’s because it is. Breathe deep into your belly, relax your body, and put all of your attention on to the heart-racingly hot sexual pleasure that you are receiving.
(4) EXTEND FOREPLAY :-
Foreplay is the main course. You know your partner’s erogenous zones better than I do. Tease them. Nibble on their neck. Kiss the folds, flab, bones and anglesof their beautiful
torsos. Give them a massage (foot, back, or other). Make out like teenagers in love.
Take…
Your…
Time.
It will help you both get out of your heads, get present, and start to sync up your sexual arousal’s internal rhythms.
(5) BE VOCAL :-
It’s good to be more vocal in bed. Up your moaning level. By letting your voice go first your body gets more uninhibited. Seeing and hearing how turned on your partner makes you is an upward spiral of sexiness. You feel less inhibited, they feel sexier, everyone wins.
Besides, it’s a lot easier to give short feedback and say what you want (“Faster”, “Come here”, “Keep doing that”) if your lips are already moving.
(6) USE YOUR HANDS :-
You and your partner use your hands.
Hold hands. Grab their hips. Pull their hair. Grip their beautiful bum. Keep your hands on her torso, forearms, or legs, sensuous body parts. Hands are important. Using them makes you feel more connected, and they make your sex more mind blowing.
(7) GET MESSY :-
Sex isn’t sterile. Sex means exchanging bodily fluids… sweat, lubrication, sperm, and saliva… the more the merrier. Get sweaty, pull their hair, bust out the massage oil…
Basically, make a massacre of your bed.
Destroy each other.
To have mind-blowing sex you need to create the time and space for it.
I don’t care how busy you are. Turn off the cell phones. Get the TV and laptops out of your bedroom. Your bed is a sacred space reserved for sleeping and orgasms.
(2) SLOW DOWN AND CONNECT:-
Drink in the deliciousness that is your partner with your eyes. Smell each other. Wake up thousands of nerve endings all over their body with your slow languishing hands.
Put your foreheads together and sync your breathwith theirs for a while. Kiss gently, firmly, passionately, and sweetly.
Get out of your heads and into your bodies.
(3) BREATHE :-
Connect yourself with your breath.
Breathing deeply during foreplay, during sex, and throughout your orgasms will relax your body, prolong the experience, build anticipation, and make you both come harder than you ever thought possible.
Seriously. I know it sounds simple and that’s because it is. Breathe deep into your belly, relax your body, and put all of your attention on to the heart-racingly hot sexual pleasure that you are receiving.
(4) EXTEND FOREPLAY :-
Foreplay is the main course. You know your partner’s erogenous zones better than I do. Tease them. Nibble on their neck. Kiss the folds, flab, bones and anglesof their beautiful
torsos. Give them a massage (foot, back, or other). Make out like teenagers in love.
Take…
Your…
Time.
It will help you both get out of your heads, get present, and start to sync up your sexual arousal’s internal rhythms.
(5) BE VOCAL :-
It’s good to be more vocal in bed. Up your moaning level. By letting your voice go first your body gets more uninhibited. Seeing and hearing how turned on your partner makes you is an upward spiral of sexiness. You feel less inhibited, they feel sexier, everyone wins.
Besides, it’s a lot easier to give short feedback and say what you want (“Faster”, “Come here”, “Keep doing that”) if your lips are already moving.
(6) USE YOUR HANDS :-
You and your partner use your hands.
Hold hands. Grab their hips. Pull their hair. Grip their beautiful bum. Keep your hands on her torso, forearms, or legs, sensuous body parts. Hands are important. Using them makes you feel more connected, and they make your sex more mind blowing.
(7) GET MESSY :-
Sex isn’t sterile. Sex means exchanging bodily fluids… sweat, lubrication, sperm, and saliva… the more the merrier. Get sweaty, pull their hair, bust out the massage oil…
Basically, make a massacre of your bed.
Destroy each other.
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